You’ve shopped around for a great divorce lawyer and now it’s time for your first meeting. What should you expect from your attorney – and how should you prepare? Here are five important steps to take before that all-important initial visit. Read more
Nobody wants a messy divorce, but sometimes spouses fight dirty. It’s not unusual for false accusations of domestic violence, child abuse, or sexual abuse to be made at some point in the process. If such an accusation is made against you, make no mistake: it’s not a joke. You must defend yourself vigorously against it. The fallout from the accusation could be steep — it could cost you your children, your home, your job, and even have the potential for jail time. It’s important to take it seriously. Read more
Over the last decade, more people in the state and throughout the country have branded themselves with tattoos. Many tattoos are of images, yet some take the shape of lettering. Some bleeding hearts go as far as showcasing the name of lovers and spouses. Could your couple tattoo lead you to a divorce attorney in New Jersey? Some celebrity couples have had the unfortunate experience of jinxing their union by getting tattoos. Here are three, widely-known celebrities who have made the inking mishap.
Angelina made the mistake not one, not two, but three times! She first got the letter, ‘H’ branded on her wrist to symbolize her love for then boyfriend, Timothy Hutton. Did you get an initial of your loved one, then found yourself at the office of a divorce attorney in New Jersey? Don’t fret, you can do the same as Angelina; she now tells people that the ‘H’ stands for her brother, James Haven. Hopefully, you love someone that shares an initial with your ex too!
Pam Anderson fell hard for rocker, Tommy Lee. After dating for under a week, the couple decided to get one another’s name tattooed on their finger. After some scandal and hardship, the relationship came to a close warranting the need to do something about the conspicuous ink. It is a good thing that the characters in ‘Tommy’ closely resemble those in ‘Mommy’ because that is how Pam solved her tattoo debacle.
Johnny Depp is in the hearts of many female fans across the globe, but at one point, his heart solely belonged to Winona Ryder. He was so enamored with her that he decided to get the sentiment, “Winona Forever” tattooed on his arm. The couple’s relationship did not land them at a divorce attorney in New Jersey, but they did split up. Johnny did not opt for altering his tattoo to symbolize his love for another person; he opted to idolize his love of drinking by changing the brand to say “Wino Forever.”
Getting a tattoo to symbolize the love of your sweetheart is an endearing sentiment, yet what happens if your love meets the same fate as the above celebrities? Before you pay a visit to your nearest tattoo parlor, think about the chance of one day finding yourself meeting with a divorce attorney in New Jersey. It may save you some money on the ink as well as the exercise in creativity to find a way to alter your tattoo!
Divorce can sometimes be a heart-wrenching experience for all individuals involved. It is especially hard on children who have grown accustomed to their family life and may not yet be aware of the tribulations of life. A divorce in New Jersey can be emotional and psychologically trying on a young individual. While not easy, there may be ways to make things easier on your child and lessen his or her fears and anxieties about the future. Consider the following suggestions:
Breaking the news regarding your divorce in New Jersey
Child professionals suggest telling your child or children about the news together with your present spouse to present a unified front and to show the child that you both continue to love, care for, and support the child. Specialists emphasize simplicity and truth while deemphasizing specifics and ugly details which may place ‘blame’ on one parent over the other.It is important for the child to understand that the decision for a divorce in New Jersey was not in any way a result of the child’s behavior and that it is purely an adult decision. Consider emphasizing that the love you have for your child will never change.
Each child may react differently
You can expect a range of reactions from your children in response to your New Jersey divorce. Because a child is older does not necessarily mean they will react in a mature manner. Similarly, some children are beyond their years emotionally and may surprise you by quickly adapting to the change in their life.
It is important to encourage your children to verbalize and share their feelings with you. Otherwise, if they are experiencing confusion or inner turmoil, these feelings may materialize in a number of ways including seclusion, aggression, or carelessness for their body and safety.
Counseling can serve as an aid to children during a New Jersey divorce
It is understandable to be overwhelmed when dealing with your children’s reactions to a divorce, but you must address your own legal and emotional divorce-related issues. Many people find that professional counseling is helpful for them and their children. Think about using available resources such as social service agencies and psychologists to make the divorce in New Jersey easier on you and your child.
You may have experienced a bad relationship or divorce with your former partner. A New Jersey restraining order is a reality and solution for those who feel their safety and personal space is threatened by another person.
A New Jersey restraining order is a civil order issued by a judge. The order provides protection against the presence of unwanted parties such as a former spouse, boyfriend, girlfriend, present or former household member, and other parties identified in the restraining order.
The precipitating events and reasons to seek a New Jersey restraining order vary, but most seek such an order because they feel threatened by another person. Events of domestic violence often precede the need for a New Jersey restraining order. In general, if a family member or other person attempts to harm you (with our without a weapon) or gives you reason to believe they are planning to harm you, then that person may have committed an act of domestic violence.
Domestic violence occurs in many forms. People may seek a New Jersey restraining order as a derivative of the following actions: assault, terroristic threats, kidnapping, criminal mischief, false imprisonment, sexual assault, harassment, and stalking.
New Jersey temporary restraining orders can be granted by means of an emergency order when the courts are closed and can be facilitated by contacting local police or 911. A final restraining order is granted once both parties are given the opportunity to tell their side of the story and the judge decides the temporary restraining order should be made permanent in order to protect the safety and well-being of the victim.
Obtaining a New Jersey restraining order can result in the following:
– A no-contact provision that prohibits the abuser from communicating with the victim
– An order that permits the abuser to remove limited items from a previously shared space in the company of a law officer
– Emergency financial support from the abuser, including support for minors
– Temporary sole possession of the home for the abused
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