Narcissists lack of empathy, interpersonal exploitation, and disregard for the rights and boundaries of others. If you’ve been a victim of narcissistic abuse at the hands of your spouse, you’ve likely been on the receiving end of these character defects. Now that you’re divorcing one (or considering doing so), expect these key traits to worsen exponentially. While divorce from a narcissist isn’t easy (not by a longshot), there are steps you can take to protect yourself and maintain your boundaries. Read more
If you’re married to an abusive spouse, you’ve probably been conditioned to feel trapped and helpless. You may be financially dependent and wonder how you’ll support yourself and your children. No one should tolerate abuse, especially when children are involved. When divorcing an abuser, it’s critical that you plan your exit wisely — especially if your spouse has threatened you with physical harm to manipulate you into staying.
As scared and overwhelmed as you may feel right now, you and your children are likely to face greater harm if you stay. Here are 5 steps to help you get out of your abusive marriage safely: Read more
You don’t have to be physically battered to be a victim of domestic violence . No matter the type of abuse — physical, verbal, emotional, sexual, or financial – control and manipulation are at the core. So where’s the line between a garden-variety “control freak” and an abusive personality? Let’s take a look at some of the signs that point to domestic abuse. Read more
If you are getting a divorce and sex addiction is the cause, you may wonder how his (or her) addiction will impact your divorce proceedings, and post-divorce life. Read on to learn what to expect when you’re going through divorce from a sex addict. Read more
Divorce isn’t simple for anyone, but ending a marriage to someone struggling with an addiction adds another set of concerns. What happens if he doesn’t stop using? Can you trust her with the kids? What if he can’t keep his job and pay child support? Although you can’t control the addict’s behavior, you can put strategies in place to make your divorced life more manageable. Read more
New Jersey is not immune from the nation’s opioid epidemic.
- For every 100 prescriptions written in New Jersey, 55 of these are for opioids.
- Over 184,000 New Jersey residents have been admitted into treatment facilities for heroin or opioid abuse since 2010.
- Over 5,000 heroin-related deaths have occurred in New Jersey since 2004.
- The number of prescription/synthetic opioid-related deaths has increased twentyfold over the past 14 years.
And here is one more tragic statistic: approximately 50% of marriages affected by addiction end in divorce. Read more
You’ve been unhappy in your marriage for awhile, but you’re not sure if you should pull the plug and divorce. While there’s no perfect partner out there, you need someone who’s committed to working through problems. If your instinct says “it’s over,” here are some signs that you might be correct. Read more
You and your spouse have sat down to negotiate your division of marital assets and there is a very big decision that the two of you will need to make.
You own a home together — a home that you very much want to stay in after your divorce — and your spouse has a retirement account through work that he/she very much wants to remain intact and free from division. Your spouse makes you an offer: you can take 100% of their equity in the home and assume sole ownership of the home, if in return, you give up any claim to the retirement account. Dollar-wise, the amount of money in play appears to be about the same.
Should you say yes? It’s exactly what you want, after all. Or is this offer too good to be true?
Let’s take a closer look at this very common asset negotiation tactic. Read more
Bankruptcy rates among Americans over age 65 have tripled in recent decades. The reason why appears to be a perfect storm of financial strains — from spiraling health care costs and rising living expenses to too little in retirement and personal savings. If you are older and planning to divorce, you may be concerned about how your split will impact your financial future, especially if you will pay — or receive — alimony.
What if you can’t pay the alimony amount you’re ordered to — or if the amount you receive isn’t enough? What happens to alimony when you retire? What about taxes? And what other sources of income and support can you draw from in your senior years? Read more