A recent headline involving former NFL star Steve Smith Sr. has reignited public interest in “homewrecker laws.” In the viral story, Smith was accused of having an affair with a married woman, which resulted in the paramour’s husband filing a lawsuit against Smith under North Carolina’s “alienation of affection” statute – a law that allows a spouse to sue a third party for interfering in their marriage.

Another notable homewrecker case in recent years involved motivational speaker Tony Robbins, who was sued for monetary damages by the ex-husband of Robbins’ second wife Sage for being the catalyst for the marriage ending. As the NY Post worded it in their headline story on the saga, Robbins was accused of “self-helping himself” to someone’s wife. Sage’s ex-husband lives in Canada; Robbins is a resident of Florida. The case appears to have been privately settled.

Could a case like this happen in New Jersey? When infidelity is a factor in divorce, here is what state law says about the ability of one spouse to sue their spouse’s lover for their role in breaking up the marriage. Read more

Once you’ve made the decision to divorce, the next crucial step is digitally disentangling yourself from your spouse. In today’s connected world, privacy isn’t just important — it’s often a make-or-break factor in divorce. From the start, it’s essential to know that your online safety, personal information, and peace of mind are fully protected.

Digital privacy is about more than changing your passwords — though this is still an important place to start! From shared photo albums to smart home devices, hidden privacy risks can show up in surprising places. Use these tips to tighten your digital security and take back full control of your online life.

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Have you decided to live under one roof with your soon-to-be ex until your divorce is finalized? Cohabiting during divorce can have several benefits – helping you save money, providing more stability for your children, and even making you both more motivated to reach a settlement and move on with your lives.

But let’s be honest: sharing a home with your soon-to-be ex during this emotional transition may not be easy. It takes clear boundaries, intentional planning, and a lot of patience.

While this setup isn’t for everyone, these 10 practical tips can help you navigate the challenges of living together while preparing for separate lives. Read more

Dividing marital assets during a divorce can be complex, especially when it comes to splitting retirement accounts like a 401(k). In New Jersey, an equitable distribution state, marital assets and debts are divided fairly — but not necessarily equally. This means that each spouse’s contributions and other factors are considered when dividing property. But 401(k) accounts also have their own set of rules, and this can add confusion to proceedings if you’re not prepared.

What will happen your 401k in divorce? Get some insight with answers to frequently asked questions about dividing retirement assets.

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