At Coldplay’s recent concert in Boston, a now-viral kiss cam moment unexpectedly revealed marital infidelity unfolding in real time. We’ve all seen the clip: as the camera panned to a couple in the stands, the woman quickly covered her face while the man ducked out of frame. Chris Martin, the band’s lead singer, tried to lighten the mood with his quip, “Either they’re having an affair or they’re just very shy.”
When the footage hit newsfeeds the next day, the affair part of Martin’s prediction turned out to be true. The pair were quickly identified as married executives at the same company.
Headlines have focused on the two caught on camera (one has since resigned; the other’s job is in limbo). But what about the people left reeling behind the scenes: the unsuspecting spouses who discovered — alongside the rest of the world — that their partner was unfaithful?
If you’ve been recently blindsided by your spouse’s affair, you’re likely still caught in that crushing wave of grief, numbness, and emotional paralysis. You may feel frozen in place as you wonder what to do next: Should you confront your spouse? File for divorce? Is there a path to rebuilding trust?
In the shock-filled aftermath of betrayal, it’s essential to give yourself space to regain your mental calm and process what’s happened, and begin to take the first steps towards legally and emotionally protecting yourself. Here’s how to do just that. Read more
Divorcing? Be Careful What You Tell ChatGPT — It Could End Up in Court
Have you been using ChatGPT to search for divorce information or even talk through your feelings during this difficult time? Think twice about what you share. What most people don’t realize is that conversations with ChatGPT aren’t legally protected the way confidential conversations with a divorce lawyer or therapist are.
Here’s what you need to know.
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Blindsided by a Spouse’s Affair? What the Coldplay Kiss Cam Scandal Teaches About Protecting Your Next Steps
At Coldplay’s recent concert in Boston, a now-viral kiss cam moment unexpectedly revealed marital infidelity unfolding in real time. We’ve all seen the clip: as the camera panned to a couple in the stands, the woman quickly covered her face while the man ducked out of frame. Chris Martin, the band’s lead singer, tried to lighten the mood with his quip, “Either they’re having an affair or they’re just very shy.”
When the footage hit newsfeeds the next day, the affair part of Martin’s prediction turned out to be true. The pair were quickly identified as married executives at the same company.
Headlines have focused on the two caught on camera (one has since resigned; the other’s job is in limbo). But what about the people left reeling behind the scenes: the unsuspecting spouses who discovered — alongside the rest of the world — that their partner was unfaithful?
If you’ve been recently blindsided by your spouse’s affair, you’re likely still caught in that crushing wave of grief, numbness, and emotional paralysis. You may feel frozen in place as you wonder what to do next: Should you confront your spouse? File for divorce? Is there a path to rebuilding trust?
In the shock-filled aftermath of betrayal, it’s essential to give yourself space to regain your mental calm and process what’s happened, and begin to take the first steps towards legally and emotionally protecting yourself. Here’s how to do just that. Read more
What Happens to Job Buyouts, Work Bonuses & Severance Packages In Divorce?
When Ed Orgeron, Louisiana State University’s former head football coach, walked away with a $17 million job buyout, he didn’t expect his ex-wife would claim half of it as a marital asset in their divorce. But that’s exactly what happened, and now the Louisiana Supreme Court has agreed she was entitled to over $8 million.
This case raises a key question for anyone facing divorce: Is a job buyout, severance package, or work bonus considered marital or separate property? In New Jersey, the answer often depends on timing, intent, and how the payout was earned.
Let’s take a deeper look.
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What a UK Supreme Court Ruling Can Teach New Jersey Couples About Protecting Assets in Divorce
Even though this case happened across the Atlantic, it raises important questions for couples here in New Jersey:
In high net worth divorce with complex assets, what counts as marital property — and what doesn’t? And how do you protect what’s yours?
Let’s break it down.
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Divorce Experts in New Jersey: Who You Need & When to Use Them
Getting a divorce in New Jersey can become complicated whenever significant assets, child custody disputes, or questions about income and employment are involved. In these more complex situations, input from an expert professional may be essential for reaching your goals. Financial specialists, appraisers, business valuators, custody experts, and therapists often play important roles in helping couples untangle the many layers of a divorce.
Should you involve experts in your divorce? Here’s a closer look at the types of professionals used in divorce — and how they might be helpful to you in reaching your goals.
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Teen’s Legal Move Raises Questions: Can Children Intervene in Divorce Cases?
Can a child intervene in their parents’ divorce to ensure their needs are properly met?
That’s the central issue in the high-profile divorce of former Kentucky Governor Matt Bevin and his wife, Glenna Bevin. As the couple moves to end their marriage, one of their adopted children, 18-year-old Jonah, has taken the unusual legal step of filing to intervene in the proceedings, arguing that his financial interests are not being adequately represented. Read more
Does New Jersey Have a Homewrecker Law? What Adultery Means for Your Divorce Case
A recent headline involving former NFL star Steve Smith Sr. has reignited public interest in “homewrecker laws.” In the viral story, Smith was accused of having an affair with a married woman, which resulted in the paramour’s husband filing a lawsuit against Smith under North Carolina’s “alienation of affection” statute – a law that allows a spouse to sue a third party for interfering in their marriage.
Another notable homewrecker case in recent years involved motivational speaker Tony Robbins, who was sued for monetary damages by the ex-husband of Robbins’ second wife Sage for being the catalyst for the marriage ending. As the NY Post worded it in their headline story on the saga, Robbins was accused of “self-helping himself” to someone’s wife. Sage’s ex-husband lives in Canada; Robbins is a resident of Florida. The case appears to have been privately settled.
Could a case like this happen in New Jersey? When infidelity is a factor in divorce, here is what state law says about the ability of one spouse to sue their spouse’s lover for their role in breaking up the marriage. Read more
Divorce Prep Checklist: Steps to Take Before You File in NJ
Whether you’re only beginning to think about ending your marriage or you’re already certain it’s time to move on, how you prepare before filing for divorce can significantly impact your finances, your children, and your peace of mind.
If you’re in New Jersey, there are several key steps to take before you file for divorce. Taking these proactive measures can help you feel more in control and confident as you move through the process.
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Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group Attorney Teresa Reichek Achieves Certified Matrimonial Attorney Status
We are proud to announce that Weinberger Divorce & Family Law Group attorney Teresa Reichek has earned the prestigious designation of Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney by the New Jersey Supreme Court. This elite certification recognizes Teresa as a highly qualified expert in matrimonial and family law, an accomplishment held by only a small percentage of attorneys statewide. Read more
6 Surprising Tips to Level Up Your Digital Privacy During Divorce
Once you’ve made the decision to divorce, the next crucial step is digitally disentangling yourself from your spouse. In today’s connected world, privacy isn’t just important — it’s often a make-or-break factor in divorce. From the start, it’s essential to know that your online safety, personal information, and peace of mind are fully protected.
Digital privacy is about more than changing your passwords — though this is still an important place to start! From shared photo albums to smart home devices, hidden privacy risks can show up in surprising places. Use these tips to tighten your digital security and take back full control of your online life.
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