Over 50 and facing divorce? For many spouses in New Jersey, a “gray divorce” means untangling complex financial ties built up over decades – just as retirement is on the horizon. Unlike younger couples, there’s often little time to rebuild lost savings or restart careers, which makes retirement planning an essential part of divorce for silver splitters.

Understanding how divorce affects retirement security in New Jersey can help both spouses make informed decisions and safeguard their long-term future. Let’s take a look at some key issues you should know about. Read more

When deciding child custody, the New Jersey courts carefully assess each parent’s ability to provide a safe, stable, and supportive environment for the child. But what happens if a child repeatedly engages in reckless or even criminal behavior? Could the parent responsible for the child’s daily care risk losing custody because of it?
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At Coldplay’s recent concert in Boston, a now-viral kiss cam moment unexpectedly revealed marital infidelity unfolding in real time. We’ve all seen the clip: as the camera panned to a couple in the stands, the woman quickly covered her face while the man ducked out of frame. Chris Martin, the band’s lead singer, tried to lighten the mood with his quip, “Either they’re having an affair or they’re just very shy.”

When the footage hit newsfeeds the next day, the affair part of Martin’s prediction turned out to be true. The pair were quickly identified as married executives at the same company. 

Headlines have focused on the two caught on camera (one has since resigned; the other’s job is in limbo). But what about the people left reeling behind the scenes: the unsuspecting spouses who discovered — alongside the rest of the world — that their partner was unfaithful?

If you’ve been recently blindsided by your spouse’s affair, you’re likely still caught in that crushing wave of grief, numbness, and emotional paralysis. You may feel frozen in place as you wonder what to do next: Should you confront your spouse? File for divorce? Is there a path to rebuilding trust?

In the shock-filled aftermath of betrayal, it’s essential to give yourself space to regain your mental calm and process what’s happened, and begin to take the first steps towards legally and emotionally protecting yourself. Here’s how to do just that. Read more

A recent UK Supreme Court ruling is making international headlines, and for good reason. In the case of Standish v. Standish, the court ruled that roughly £80 million (about $100 million) transferred from a retired UBS banker to his wife during their marriage would not be subject to asset division in their divorce. Why? Because the court found those assets weren’t truly part of the marital pot.

Even though this case happened across the Atlantic, it raises important questions for couples here in New Jersey:

In high net worth divorce with complex assets, what counts as marital property — and what doesn’t? And how do you protect what’s yours?

Let’s break it down.

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