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2011 DIVORCE NEWSLETTERS

As a service to our clients, we are pleased to provide you with this monthly e-newsletter. We hope that the information and articles are helpful and supportive.

November 2011

1. Family Court Justice Harvey Brownstone Reflects - On changes, issues & trends in divorce over the past 15 years.
2. Contemplating Divorce: Separation - The three main reasons why couples separate.
3. Divorce Stories - Some divorce stories to help you with your personal journey.
4. Victimhood - The curse of divorce recovery.
5. Divorce Humor: Perspective - It's all in how you look at things…

October 2011

1. Judge Lynn Toler Reflects - On changes, issues & trends in divorce over the past 15 years.
2. Divorce Art - Divorcing individuals use art to heal themselves.
3. 7 Important Factors - Negotiating your financial divorce settlement.
4. University Health Study - Marriage and divorce can trigger dangerous weight gain.
5. What Your Child Wants Most - What they want most is to freely love both parents.

September 2011

1. Back to School - Find inspiration from real-life stories about people who went back to school after their divorce, and found a new life and a more fulfilling career.
2. Love in Ruins - You need to be honest with your spouse, but don't let your feelings impact your legal standing.
3. Words of Warning - Learn the don'ts of shared parenting.
4. Concealing Information From Your Divorce Lawyer - Eye-opening "real life" examples of how concealing information during divorce can backfire.
5. Should you tell your children about your infidelity? - Read the answer from two experts.

August 2011

1. How to Evaluate a Lawyer - Some useful questions to ask when deciding which lawyer to use.
2. What to Include in Your Parenting Plan - Learn about 2 types of parenting plans: Collaborative Parenting Plan and Parallel Parenting Plan
3. Will Debt Be A Factor In Your Divorce? - Although debt can be a significant issue for married couples, it becomes a much bigger problem to deal with in separation and divorce.
4. Boot Camp for the Broken Hearted - Having trouble getting over your broken relationship? Here's a look at the stages of a broken heart -- and some tips on mending your heart and moving on.
5. Life Quotes - Some quotes to help you through this stage of your life.

July 2011

1. Divorce vs Unhappy Marriage - Signs to look out for if you are wondering if it's time to go.
2. Tips for fathers in custody dispute - Divorce changes the roles for everybody. Here are some steps that will help protect your parental rights.
3. Can you recognize emotional abuse? - Learn to recognize the difference between having disagreements with your partner and emotional abuse.
4. Financial Fairness in Divorce - Unfortunately, equal doesn't always mean equitable. Avoid the pitfalls by doing your homework.
5. Common Questions Children Ask (and some simple responses) - Suggestions for parents who are struggling with what to say to their kids about the divorce.

June 2011

1. University Study on Divorce and Children - This study finds that conflict, not divorce, affects children of divorce.
2. Court Programs that Treat and Prevent High-Conflict Divorce - 5 types of interventions for divorced families and high-conflict post divorce couples that have been most commonly used.
3. The Cash Business in Divorce - You should be concerned about cash taken out of your spouse's business that is not reported.
4. Forgive your unfaithful Partner and let go of Anger - This is possible with time, effort and prayer.
5. Divorce Letters - A bit of humor to help you through your day.

May 2011

1. Navigating the Law: The Art of the Deal - How to negotiate with your spouse and reach agreements quickly without anyone ever setting foot in a courthouse.
2. A Family-Friendly Approach to Resolving Child Access - Replacing unfriendly terms and setting an access schedule can help reduce conflicts between parents.
3. How to Exercise Forgiveness - When you refuse to forgive someone, you have this invisible connection with them. It continues to give them power over you.
4. Changing Beliefs - Transcend your divorce by choosing to change your beliefs.
5. Inspirational Quotes - Some inspirations to help you through your difficult time.

April 2011

1. Divorce Therapy for Parents - How divorce therapy for divorcing couples with children can help.
2. Popular Myths about Shared Parenting - We will unravel some common myths about shared parenting
3. How Can You Control Your Legal Costs? - Tips on how to make the most effective use of your time with your lawyer to control your legal costs.
4. Moving Through Your Anger - As uncomfortable as it can be to feel heightened levels of anger for an extended period, it is crucial to allow yourself to go through this phase.
5. Taking Control - Understanding your income and expenses will help you to gain control of your finances – and life – during divorce.

March 2011

1. The Middle Ground - Solve problems effectively, and allow love and compassion to flourish by knowing about "The Middle Ground".
2. Experiment with Happiness - A twice divorced woman writes about how she decides to choose and experiment with happiness.
3. Discovering Your Financial Reality - Understanding your financial situation will give you a sense of control over your life -- before, during, and after divorce.
4. Keep in Contact with Your Ex about the Children - Solid communication between parents is imperative to limit the confusion children are most likely feeling.
5. Social Media is a Gold Mine for Damning Evidence - Beware of what you post on social media pages. A whopping 81% of lawyers have found court-worthy evidence from these sources.

February 2011

1. Gray Divorce - Tips for older couples when their marriages end.
2. To Reconcile, Negotiate, Mediate, or Litigate? - You have choices as to how to proceed once you decide to divorce.
3. Get Your Head Right - Accept the end of the marriage in all its gory details and embrace the pain.
4. Child Friendly Divorce - A checklist for parents to help foster your children's long term adjustment to divorce.
5. Your New Financial Identity - Learn the need to protect your credit score during divorce and how to establish yourself as a financial individual.

January 2011

1. Are you Really Ready for Divorce - The eight questions you need to ask.
2. Anger - Even though anger is a normal part of the healing process, anger can become a destructive force in your life. Here's how to cope.
3. An Extraordinary Life - An interview with Debbie Ford, the bestselling author of life-changing books such as Spiritual Divorce: Divorce as a Catalyst for an Extraordinary Life.
4. Meditate Away your Stress - The practice of meditation offers peace, serenity, and calm -- a welcome respite from the turbulent emotions of divorce.
5. Humor - Perspective...It's all in how you look at it....

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