The Mediation Process in New Jersey
NJ Divorce Mediators
THE NJ MEDIATION PROCESS
New Jersey (NJ) Mediation Lawyers
Going through a divorce is rarely ever easy; however, if a divorcing couple is open to the idea of mediation, it can make the process much less stressful - and many times, a much more cost-effective process. During an NJ divorce mediation, a divorcing couple can often resolve their child custody, visitation, economic issues (such as alimony, child support and asset distribution), and all other family related matters in an amicable and efficient manner. Through effective New Jersey divorce mediation, couples can reach an agreement that is best suited to the needs of everyone in their family.
During the mediation process, both parties agree to discuss their differences openly and reasonably in the presence of a neutral professional (also known as a mediator). This process affords couples the opportunity to actively participate in their own negotiations with the expertise and guidance of their NJ divorce lawyer either at the session with them or in strategy meetings prior to the mediation session.
While the mediator does not make any decisions during these confidential mediation sessions, he or she can make suggestions that will help spouses arrive at a mutual and equitable agreement. Unless both parties sign a formal contract, nothing discussed in a New Jersey divorce mediation session is actually recognized as an enforceable agreement. In other words, NJ mediation is non-binding.
Beginning a Co-parenting Relationship
New Jersey divorce mediation is a positive means by which you and your spouse can amicably resolve family and parenting issues, such as:
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Child custody
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Parenting time or visitation
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Financial issues
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Child support
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Alimony
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Asset division
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And more
While New Jersey divorce mediation has many benefits, the single best reason may be that mediation helps preserve family relationships. Two parents who choose to sit down, discuss their differences, and decide for themselves what is in their child’s best interest, have a greater chance of reaching an amicable arrangement. Even though one relationship may be ending, New Jersey divorce mediation acknowledges that a new relationship is beginning—a co-parenting relationship. Through effective NJ family law mediation, divorcing couples are able to remain unified regarding matters concerning their children.
Being in Control of Your Own Outcome
Mediation also gives New Jersey couples the power to make their own decisions in areas that affect everyday life. In a sense, NJ divorce mediation provides families with the ability to control the destiny of their own settlement (as opposed to presenting the case to a judge, in a litigious courtroom setting, for a forced and binding decision).
While New Jersey divorce mediation has its benefits, there may be situations when the sessions do not produce a favorable outcome or agreement. In this situation, either party is free to voluntarily terminate the mediation sessions without the threat that anything discussed in mediation will be used against them in court.
If you are contemplating a divorce, are already active in the divorce process, or have a disputed family law matter in the State of New Jersey, it is advisable to explore all of your legal options. Contact one of the highly reputable New Jersey divorce mediators at Weinberger Law Group today to begin mediating your NJ divorce, matrimonial or family law matter.
For more information about New Jersey divorce mediation, child custody, child support, division of assets, alimony, or other family law matters, please contact us at (973) 520-8822 for a consultation.
Our partner, Bari Zell Weinberger, is certified by the Supreme Court of NJ as a Matrimonial Law Attorney. This Certification is achieved by only 2% of the attorneys in New Jersey.




